Transformation for the Second Chakra – Love Beyond Dependency
Part Two – Conscious Relating

By consciously exploring relationship we can learn to grow as individuals and also to grow in love.

Love and relationship is one of the major life lessons nearly all people will face in their lives. Love seems to be so simple and natural,
but we usually find it is complicated. We find it is not easy to live alone and it is not easy to understand our own self fully and when we live with
another person the challenges increase. But so does the feeling of nourishment and companionship.

As seekers of greater consciousness we can learn how to transform love from the unconscious duality of love and hate of
dependency and anti-dependency into a partnership of two people growing in awareness and individuality.

Lovers as conscious people become mirrors to each other. One of the greatest benefits of a deep relationship is that both people know each other
intimately and entirely in both positive and negative aspects, and if we can accept each others faults and understand each other,
then our relationship partner becomes our best friend and best support.

To be conscious in relationship it is a great help to know the “Ten Secrets of Conscious Relating.” In this workshop not only is the understanding
of these ten secrets transmitted but also exercises to practice them, so that we can go back to our lives and start to relate with our love partner in
a new way, a conscious way.

As the laws of relationship affect all our important relationships, we can also apply the new ways of conscious relating to
our family and friend relationships.

Singles and couples are welcome in this workshop, it is open for all, but previous participation in the
Transformation for the Second Chakra Part One: Opening to Intimacy group is highly recommended.

Love needs the greatest awareness. Unconscious, asleep, snoring, you cannot love. Your love is more like hate than like love that's why your love can go
sour in a single minute. Your love becomes jealousy any moment. Your love can become hatred any moment. Your love is not love enough.
Your love is more like a hiding place, not an open sky. It is more a need, not like an independent flow.
More like dependence -- and all dependencies are ugly. Real love makes you free, gives you total freedom.
It is unconditional. It asks for nothing. It simply gives and shares, and it is happy because the sharing was possible. It is thankful because you accepted.

Osho - Yoga: The Alpha and the Omega, Vol. 7 #8